Twenty-six women who say they are in love with Roman Catholic priests
have written to Pope Francis urging him to make celibacy optional.
The women, who all live in Italy, described the "devastating
suffering" caused by the church's ban on priests having sex and
marrying.
"We love these men and they love us," they said in their letter published on the authoritative website Vatican Insider.
"With humility, we place at your feet our suffering so that something
can change, not just for us but for the good of the whole Church," they
added in the message, signed with their first names and an initial of
their last names, but with several phone numbers.
Priestly celibacy in the Roman Catholic Church, while not a unchangeable dogma, is a tradition going back more than 1,000 years.
In recent decades the Vatican has come under pressure to make
celibacy optional and allow priests to marry, with supporters saying
that this would help ease the acute shortage of priests in many areas.
The women asked the pope to "bless our love," adding that few people
could understand the "devastating suffering lived by a woman who has a
strong love for a priest".
The Church teaches that a priest should dedicate himself totally to
his vocation, essentially taking the Church as his spouse, in order to
help fulfil its mission.
But the women told the pope that their men would be able to serve the
Church "with greater passion" if they were supported by a woman who
loves them and children.
This was far better for the priests and the Church, they argued in
the letter sent to the Vatican, than "a life of continued
clandestineness, with the frustration of a love that is not complete".
The women asked to meet the pope to explain the plight "tearing apart
our souls" because the couples were faced with the alternatives of
either the men leaving the priesthood or carrying on the relationships
in secret.
Proponents of optional celibacy in the Church have linked the sexual
abuse of children by priests to its celibacy rule, saying that it could
stem from sexual frustrations.
But the Church has rejected this argument, saying that paedophilia,
whether in the Church or outside of it, is carried out by people with
psychological problems.
Priests are allowed to marry in the Anglican and other Protestant churches as well as in the Orthodox Church.
Monday, May 19, 2014
Women in love with priests ask pope to make celibacy optional
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