For many African women, wearing beads
is a way of life and a culture passed on to them from their mothers.
They grow up to find them on their waist even before they begin to
question its significance.
The waist bead is like a band worn
around the belly. In most cultures, they are a symbol of a woman’s
confidence in her body and sexuality. For me, they are precious African
Jewels. In West Africa, waist beads have several names; Jel-Jelli,
Jigeda, Giri-Giri, Djalay Djalay, Toma or Yomba and they are always worn
under clothing.
Beads found in Ghana include glass beads, stone
beads, crystal beads, ceramic beads, Adinkra beads, and the “Ahoofe”
(beauty) beads. The tradition of wearing of beads on the waist in West
Africa was made popular by the Yorubas in Nigeria. Women are the main
users of these beads.
But do you know the mysterious role they
play in the lives of females? Well, West African women in particular are
given waist beads as children to wear throughout life to help shape
their figures. It remains a mystery how the beads shape them, but
somehow, curvy African women attribute their voluptuous shape to the
waist beads. It is also used to measure the growth rate of children
(girls). When the beads become too small around the waist, then the
child is seen as growing.
After reading that, I took the liberty
to investigate more about waist beads. My search took me to Ghana’s Art
Centre in Accra, the number one shop for the sale of African artifacts
including beads.
I met one Aunty Monica who has been selling
beads for over a decade. According to her, some waist beads, which she
could only describe as “red”, are put on the waist and the legs of
children who are bow-legged to straighten their legs.
“When they
are on your waist, they shape your body by keeping the waist small, so
the hips are more accentuated,” another bead seller named Linda told me.
She added also that waist beads were traditionally used to show the
difference between a male and a female.
“To show our identity as
Ghanaians, we women put on waist beads.” In modern times however, gay
men also buy waist beads from her and put them on to differentiate
between the male and the female roles played in a homosexual
relationship.
Patricia Naa Dei, a university student I met
buying these jewels, told me waist beads were simply for fashion. She
indicated, she didn’t like them but had to put them on to satisfy her
boyfriend, who loves to see them on her.
During sexual
intercourse, her boyfriend whose name she only gave as Ato, removes them
and put them on his waist and takes them off after the act. Weird, I
agree. But lots of people do kinky stuff in the bedroom, you know? “The
rattling sound of the beads during sex urges my guy on,” she added.
Beads
on the waists of women are said to possess the power to attract and
evoke deep sensual feelings for men. So I decided to shift gears and
speak to a few gentlemen about the subject.
Most of them
including Alex Anim-Ansah stressed that waist beads make the waist of
the ladies attractive. He said, “I like it on my wife and sometimes get
irritated when she takes them off. It’s sexy.”
Its power to turn
men on is a mystery one cannot comprehend, but the men agree whenever
they see them on a woman’s waist, it awakens their sensual desires.
Aunty Monica the beads seller advised young ladies especially the
married ones to continue wearing waist beads as it “charms” men to
somehow remain faithful. According to her, if a woman stops wearing her
beads, the husband might be tempted to cheat with another woman who puts
them on.
Though this allegation has no scientific backing and is
more superficial than practical, could waist beads actually reduce
promiscuity in marriage?
We see them around, we see our daughters, sisters and wives wear them. Have we ever thought of their significance?
Well,
besides its usefulness and mystical powers, beads in general and
royalty are also closely linked in Africa. In Yoruba tradition, strands
of beads are the emblems of the gods. Wearing a beaded crown with a veil
is the quintessential sign of kingship. Also in Ghana, beads worn
around the wrist and legs are signs of royalty or priesthood.
For
me, beads are not just mere ornament for adornment, but with its
mysteries, they are a symbol of the link between Africans and
superstition.
Saturday, May 31, 2014
The Mysteries Of Waist Beads
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